Choosing the safest car seat needs a better awareness of the market than most people have, as with what’s offered by the various styles and important safety regulations, the choice has real consequences. We’ll explain, piece by piece, what you need to know for easy consumption. Twelve months old, twenty pounds — the usual maximum for the majority of top quality seats on the market from well known brands. Some chairs can be turned forward, though the majority are exclusively designed to be used facing the rear — something worth remembering when the final choice is made. All parents know that bringing your baby from your car back into the house while they’re sleeping will almost inevitably lead to their stirring — although help is at hand with a number of these seats doubling up as baby carriers, the possibility of avoiding this improves. Your babies won’t grow out of a convertible car seat until they’ve grown enough to do without safety seats entirely. These are fine for your baby from birth until they grow too big for car chairs, but you ought to bear in mind that these chairs cost more than the alternatives. As parents with experience can point out, generally chairs like these aren’t as easy to carry outside the car. The first step when you’re looking at convertible safety chairs is to read the reviews available given that no two models are alike and individual combinations of features are unlikely to be equally useful for each individual child. Also reviews like these are independent affairs with no reason to mislead you about the quality of a chair.

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Larger children can trust the booster seat while they weigh between roughly thirty to eighty pounds. You can choose between the five-point harness and those requiring the car’s safety belt. To check your child will be comfortable, let her try both types out. As the reviews will again tell you, many of these chairs offer some integral means of entertaining your little one during a journeys. Selecting your ideal infant safety seats often takes a long time, but you need to balance your son’s needs against your budget. The wise parent doesn’t neglect comparison reviews — they are easily the most useful resource you have access to.

Travel systems baby pushchairs are pushchairs that come with a matching infant car seat. This combination is very practical and useful as it provides the ease of transferring your sleeping baby from the car to the pushchair and vice versa. Most parents will purchase one of these, as new borns are prevented from leaving the hospital without a car seat.

Similar to other types of pushchairs, travel systems pushchairs also come with adjustable handles and shopping carriers beneath the pushchair. Because of its dual function, these pushchairs comes with a higher price tag as well, but you will not need to purchase a separate baby car seat for your baby.

With the wide variety of choices for parents to choose from, it is crucial to understand the plus and minus points of each of these types of baby pushchairs and to purchase one that will fulfill the parents as well as the baby’s needs for many years to come.

Travel sets are the most complete package you can get for your baby’s traveling needs. This comprehensive set is all you need from the day your baby is born until the day when your child no longer require a pushchair to ferry him or her around. A typical baby travel set includes the baby pushchair, a matching car seat, carrycot, boot cover, changing bag and a raincover.

As you are purchasing a complete traveling system, it is the most value for money as the individual components if bought separately may cost more. The baby travel sets are getting highly popular due to the convenience it provides to parents as well as being hassle-free and durability.

You are busy. I know. Working all of the time to “provide” for your family. Trying to “make ends meet” and acquiring all of that stuff you want. Just keep in mind what you may be giving up in the process…the precious memories you fail to create with your children.

You see, as you grow older you begin to place less emphasis on acquiring and more on reflection where you begin to truly take notice of all of your accomplishments as well as painful regrets.

Now take a minute and put yourself into the future when it becomes this time of reflection. Imagine you in a time where your children have grown into respectable adults raising families of their own. Imagine the all the time that has passed of your children’s lives that you will never have a single chance to see again.

As you imagine yourself into this position, begin to think all of the stuff you “have” acquired. You know the big house and the big screen TV, fancy cars, elaborate vacations, etc. Take notice of all the feelings this stuff gives you. Think about all of that stuff but without a single memory of your children. How would you feel? Would you feel as if you had regrets of NOT creating memories of your children? Wouldn’t these regrets be a bit painful to have knowing there is nothing you can do to change the past?

Now imagine yourself without all of that that stuff. Just thinking of memories of your children in their early years and that is all. Think of all of the simple things that moved you emotionally and the time spent with them. Take notice of all the feelings these beautiful memories give you. Look at their faces, their smiles, and their actions as you see them growing through the years. How much stronger are your feelings now? Would you feel any regrets NOT having stuff? Wouldn’t these regrets seem rather insignificant compared those warm memories you have made?

By imagining yourself in the future reflecting on life you can get a glimpse of what really matters most. I am not saying it is “evil” to acquire possessions, rather I am saying to get too caught up into it that you loose sight of some of the things that are more important in life…memories. These memories are yours to keep and will fulfill your life now and into the future more than any possession can. Think about all that stuff you acquired that ended up in the trash or you no longer use? More than likely if you think about that stuff now you will realize that the emotional impact they once created no longer has the same effect. A memory of your child has just as much impact as it did when the memory was created. And it LASTS through your life as you look back upon them from time to time.

Remember also that the memories you create with your children are their memories also. They get to carry them through life. They get to reflect upon those times with you or the lack of. They will use them as references throughout their lives in which the will base their future actions upon. Keep this in mind as you consider making changes in your lifestyle to spend more emphasis creating memories and less on acquiring temporary stuff.

What I am saying is…

Sometimes you need to evaluate your position in life. Many times we spend so much time in needless acquiring that we tend to overdo it. Spending our money and dragging ourselves into needless debt to where we are FORCING ourselves to make “ends meet.” Keeping ourselves at our jobs late sacrificing the little time we do have here on earth for the things things that end up being less important. Yes, you do have to provide for your family. But when you have yourself financially extended because of needless spending you may be ultimately sacrificing the most important thing in your life as well as your children’s lives…memories.

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Time management is an organisational concept traditionally associated with adults and the workplace. The experts tell us that more efficient use of time means greater productivity. So organisations encourage individuals to prioritise, plan ahead and make the most of the time that they have at work.

It is important that working parents are good managers of time so they can meet the demands of children and partners, keep a boss happy or a business afloat while maintaining some personal time. Sound planning helps us to lead a balanced life because it increases the use of discretionary time at our disposal.

Time management is not just for adults. Kids also benefit by putting some basic management techniques into practice.

In the early years of school you can help kids to become organised by displaying in a simple chart which outlines special activities for each day. Encourage children to refer to the chart each morning and plan ahead. For instance, if Tuesday is library day they can pack their borrowing bag and any books to be returned.

As children learn basic time concepts such as weeks and months give them a calendar to place on their bedroom wall. They can cross off the days or countdown until special events such as birthdays or the end of term. They can also use a calendar to plan each day including their after school activities.

As children progress to the upper end of primary school more complex management and planning skills are needed, particularly to deal with homework. In fact, many Year Six teachers include some time management in their programs as they know that children with good organisational skills are more likely to cope with secondary school where they have multiple teachers who all set homework.

Parents can help upper primary and secondary students better manage their time in the following ways:

* Provide your child with a student diary. You may convert an old exercise book into a diary or buy one designed for young students. Encourage children to place important events such as after school activities and daily homework in their diaries. My eleven year old son sits with my wife and I each Sunday night as we compare our diaries for the coming week.

* Teach your child to break complex homework tasks such as projects into smaller jobs and then plan out the work. If a project is due in two weeks, work out what needs to be done and work backwards from the due date.

* Encourage children to measure the time they spend on homework and encourage them to work efficiently and quickly. It is a common for students to think they have spent hours doing homework when really they have frittered much of their time away sharpening pencils, arranging books or playing games on the computer. Sometimes establishing a set time such as thirty minutes is an effective way of encouraging kids to work quickly.

* Help children to prioritise their work if they are busy. When teaching Year Six I used to encourage children to categorise their homework as either Important, Urgent or Both. Important meant that the task needed considerable attention to detail or research before it could be completed, while Urgent meant that it was due soon, usually the next day. If a student gave work a category B for both then it was panic stations as they had a great deal of work to do in a short time. The point of this exercise was to help students get on top of their work rather than leave it until the last possible moment.

A valuable time management technique for adults and children is to establish a work routine that suits individual physical requirements as well as schedules. My son is a night owl who can work really productively after dark whereas I have a daughter who tends to crash when the sun goes down. Both children have different homework routines that reflect their physiological differences.

Time management for children is primarily about self management. I am not suggesting that children abandon their wonderful sense of spontaneity and slavishly regulate their days, however some basic planning strategies can help them deal with their load.

Michael Grose is The Parent Coach. For seventeen years he has been helping parents deal with the rigours of raising kids and survive!! For information about Michael’s Parent Coaching programs or just some fine advice and ideas to help you raise confident kids and resilient teenagers visit http://www.parentingideas.com.au

Are you a regular at the Shame Shack? It’s that all-you-can-eat smorgasbord of disapproval behind the paranoia warehouse inside your own Lizard Brain. Once we become mothers, some of us start hanging out there all day like judgment junkies, wolfing down all the self-denial it takes to honor The First Commandment of Martyrdom: Thou Shalt Not Complain. Motherhood’s primary taboo. Without that one, all the heapin’ helpin’s of shame in the world won’t stick to your ribs.

When parenthood stunts your growth or stifles your self-expression, you can bet theres’ a Big Mother behind it. The Big Mother of Should’s, Shouldn’ts and Shame. Big Mother–who used to tell us nice girls don’t complain, now tells us nice mothers don’t bitch: just sit on those feelings till you spontaneously combust! And remember Big Mother is ALWAYS watching.

BUT IS KVETCHING REALLY A WMD?
What if women didn’t put a sock in it? Would babies cease to be born? Would grown men climb clock towers if women expressed some of their Shadow-side feelings about parenthood? Isn’t complaining the fist necessary step in diagnosing a problem?

Maybe it’s time to take a closer look at what the Shame Shack’s been dishin’ out. This Valentine’s Day, before you get up to bake someone that special Valentine’s cake, before you shape your kids’ pancakes into hearts, before you force back the bile of resentment one more time, feast your eyes on the Specialties of the House (and a few antidotes for toxic claptrap).

1. CLASSIC STALE FRUITCAKE: “COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS.”
But who doesn’t? Like having the flu while changing diapers, counting your blessings and expressing a feeling are not mutually exclusive!

2. SPARTAN STEW: “YOU MADE YOUR BED, NOW LIE IN IT.”
What if the colonists who started this country had done what they were “supposed to do” instead of complaining?

3. RAW MIND GAME MEDLEY: “WHO EVER TOLD YOU IT WAS GOING TO BE EASY?”
When starvation was imminent, did the Donner Party waste time condemning each other for lack of foresight?

4. HOMEMADE UPSIDE DOWN DOUBLE BIND CAKE: “MY MOTHER RAISED SEVEN CHILDREN BY HERSELF AND SHE NEVER COMPLAINED.”
I don’t think Lizzy Borden complained much either. Does that make her a saint?

5. DOORMAT DIET PLATE: “THEY’LL BE GROWN AND GONE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT. AFTER THAT YOU CAN BE AS SELFISH AS YOU WANT.”
If feelings are selfish, then either feelings are bad or selfishness is good. You must
choose. So choose wisely.

6. THE CATCH 22 OF THE DAY : “DON’T ROCK THE BOAT.”
If a feeling can rock the boat, it’s time to get a bigger boat!

7. BAKED ALBATROSS: “IF YOU CAN’T FEEL SOMETHING NICE, DON’T FEEL ANYTHING AT ALL.”
So… the only good mother is a dead mother?

8. UNLEAVENED BILE BRIOCHE: “IF YOU CAN’T TAKE THE HEAT, GET OUT OF THE KITCHEN.”
Call the Mommy Police! Somebody wants to exercise her First Amendment Rights!

9. CAT O’ NINE TAILS CASSEROLE: “MAYBE YOU WEREN’T CUT OUT TO BE A MOTHER.”
And who was? The problem is not what you were cut out to be. It’s what the psychological liposuction carved off your soul so you could squeeze into that Maternal Perfection Suit.

10. SYCOPHANT SUZETTE: “WHAT IF EVERYBODY DID THAT?”
Maybe it’s time everybody did!

“Is that all the Martyr Menu’s got?” you’re probably saying. “Bring on the dessert cart!” So indulge yourself this Valentine’s Day! Not just the side of you with warm brownies and bedtime stories, but the dark side too. Where all the Bad Mother feelings get stuffed. Remember, that’s the side that really needs some love! So go on, live a little: Kvetch!

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Joan Bechtel @2005 All Rights Reserved

Recovering martyr, Joan Bechtel, is also an award-winning comedienne, early childhood educator and author of MOTHERHOOD CONFIDENTIAL, offering workshops in Personalized Parenting, helping women out of the dogma-doo to find their own personally-correct answers. To order the first half of her book fre.e and one half hour fre.e Personalized Parenting coaching go to http://www.MotherhoodConfidential.com

Stem Cells..

An increasing number of parents are storing stem cells from their baby’s cord. Hopefully these will not be needed, but if your child develops leukaemia or any other disease requiring a bone marrow transplant, stem cells could save his life.

What Are Stem Cells?
The building blocks of your immune system. They can turn themselves into white blood cells which combat infection, red blood cells which carry oxygen around your system, and platelets which help the blood to clot.

What Are They Used For?
Some cancers destroy vital cells in the blood and immune system. The treatment commonly used is a bone marrow transplant which contains stem cells. However, a donor is required, a match is difficult to obtain and transplanting stem cells stored from birth is much easier, and matching is not a problem.

Any Other Uses?
Research is at an early stage, but there is hope that one day stem cells could cure other diseases like Parkinson’s, diabetes, various cancers and spinal injury - you may recall that the late Christopher Reeve (Superman actor) hoped that stem cell research could one day enable him to walk again.
So far about 5-6000 stem cell transplants have been performed worldwide, most involving young children.

So Why Isn’t It Routinely Collected?

As is often the case, the establishment is dragging it’s heels. In the UK the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists says: “Routine collection of cord blood and stem cells cannot be recommended at this time because of the insufficient scientific base to support such practice.” However, a national cord blood bank has been started and four National Health Service Hospitals are asking parents for permission to harvest blood from cords at births in their hospitals.

The UK’s Department of Health has also given full accreditation to Future Health Technologies, a privately run company that will, for a price, store cord blood for 25 years. Future Health provide the kit to collect the blood at the birth, although you will need the co-operation of the medical staff.

In the USA, cord blood bank Cord Blood Registry has already stored more than 250,000 vials of stem cells.

Of course you hope the cord blood will never be required, but if it is, for the price of a holiday you could save the life of your child.

For further research, type ‘cord blood’ in a search engine.

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Author: Tony Luck who runs a website with advice about raising babies.

The method know as 3d ultrasound is used when a woman is in early pregnancy, it provides 3d images of the fetus. Most of the time these ultrasound pictures are quickly collected and joined together and animated to make a “4d ultrasound scan”.

Three dimensional scans works in the same way to the normal scanning methods except that the ultrasound waves are directed from multiple directions. The waves can be redirected back and captured and provide information to construct a 3d image in much the same way as 3d pictures. 3 dimesional ultrasound was devised by olaf ramm and stephen smith.

It is important to understand that sonologists around the world have always conjured 3d pictures of the body in their minds while doing 2d scans. However, until recently it was very difficult to do this type of reconstruction on on info using ultrasound. The advent of 4d baby scans for the first time allowed us a peek into the thinking of a sonologist and hence letting us see the images on the ultrasound machine.

3d/4d ultrasound imaging should utilize ultrasound energy following the same limits as conventional 2d ultrasound to create the 3d images. There is no data to suggest harm due to 3d ultrasound, its use in non-medical situations needs to be undertaken with an understanding of the risks.